Mail order brides. She's not a product and she can't be ordered.

I'm sitting at my computer typing away when I see an ad with a picture of a beautiful woman pop up. The ad flashes and says "hot russian brides" sometimes an ad will pop up saying"Asian Beauties", like these women are some kind of breed or something. I'm completely grossed out. In this country women can do whatever we please, (and we do thank you very much). But in other societies women don't have the kind of opourtunties to escape from poverty.

It's basically a legal form of selling yourself to someone. Dating someone "online" is not enough to get to know them as a person. Men, who look for these ladies are controlling bastards who look for a woman they know they can control because she has no means of supporting herself. A lot of these women want to have a better life so badly, they come to the united states or their desired country by any means. Even marrying an ugly guy who is double their age and domineering.

If you ever google the subject "mail order brides" out of curiosity there is a huge amount of content. Some of it, be forewarned is disturbing and pornographic. On this one site there are young women perfectly posed and done up beautifully, then are no older than 28 and the youngest is 18. They stare with fake smiles and bleak eyes, desperate to find a better place.

Websites that advertise these women say they have "Traditional Values". What does that even mean? All women are different and have different personalities. "Traditional values" is not a skill or a personality trait! It makes me sad to see they are all grouped into the same category like each beautiful lady is disposable. Like her human life is something to be bought and in return she gives her services.

Let me first say, if you are a male that is preying on these poor women who have no economic hope in their society you are disgusting. Period. You are so foul no one in this county wants to date you, so you have to trick a disadvantaged girl into being with you. If you are really inclined to foreign girls, study abroad or move away but there are plenty of great women in the United States.

I'm not a feminist to be clear. I'm a normal human female with feelings and emotions. As a woman I want to be valued for my mind just as much or more than my physical appearance and what I am capable of doing. I want a husband who listens to me and respects me as an equal and who loves me tenderly and treats me well. I would in turn do the same out of a mutual love and respect. I know in my heart that no woman is that much different than I am.

You know what I bet as soon as I post this, there will be ads popping up for booty calls and for sale brides and such which will greatly upset me, but there's not much I can do about it. That's the sick sex enslaved world we live in.

No matter what your situation remember this; Love= Respect. I wish all these women could live better lives.